A confession...

Unfortunately, lately I have come to hear of but not experience bullying in my workplace. This is hard for me to take not only because I am so close to those feeling victimized but because I can't do much about it except be there for the people involved. I feel bad that I can't help explicitly or get directly involved but I am doing what I can to be there for those feeling victimized. Being there for someone while they are being bullied is important and never underestimate the power of being a friend in a time of need. The key feeling of those who are bullied is often loneliness so letting someone know that you are there for them if you cannot do anything to help the situation directly is important. Also, do not let them feel that you are treating them any differently to anyone else because this will make them feel even more alienated and doubt how genuine your concerns are. If everyone is gossiping about them, their trust in others will be minimal. Never break that trust, if they tell you something in confidence, honour it unless they are dangerous, otherwise they will retreat even more until they are no longer noticeable.